aita for throwing out my husband's dinner

AITA for throwing out my husband's dinner after he went to eat at his mom's house?

am i the for throwing out my,husband's dinner after he went to eat at,his mom's house,my mother-in-law calls every night to,ask what we're having for dinner,then she brags about what she's cooking,to make me look bad especially if we're,getting takeout,i used to care but not anymore but my,husband would ask me to make dinner only,for him to go eat the dinner his mom,makes at her home,which is 10 minutes away and using the,that's my favorite meal excuse,yesterday i wanted to surprise him by,cooking one of his favorite meals and,although i was busy i took time off work,to cook,i even went grocery shopping to get what,i needed later as i was setting the,table his mom called i told him he,didn't have to answer but he did,like usual,she asked what we were having but acted,surprised that i cooked this meal,she then went on to tell him she cooked,ex-meal and told him to come over,he said okay which shocked me i said,seriously as he started dressing up,getting ready to leave,he told me no offense but this meal that,his mom cooked was even more of a,favorite than the one i cooked,and grabbed his keys and left i felt,awful i took his plate and threw it out,then ate my portion,as i was about to put the plate in the,dishwasher he got home looking angry,saying his mom lied about cooking that,favorite meal and used it as an excuse,to force him to eat dinner with her,i was shocked but he sat down telling me,to go ahead and re-heat dinner,i told him no dinner after he abandoned,it i threw it out,he said what and i told him he,disrespected my time and effort and,chose to go eat wath his mom instead,he began yelling at me asking if i,really did that then called me petty and,horrible then went upstairs saying what,i did was 100 times worse than what his,mom did,i definitely feel like i let my anger,and frustration get the best of me but,it really felt unbearable having to live,like this for so long,by the way i'm 26 and he's 28. eta to,make one thing clear and that's the fact,that my husband only does this when it,comes to food,he lived with his mom attended community,college and loved and still loves her,food and is used to it,she gave me recipes to make and i tried,to do that but he keeps switching homes,just to eat what he feels like,not the why in world is he,telling you to go heat dinner did a,t-rex attack him and eat his arms on the,way back from his mom's,did he try to catch a piano falling from,the sky so it didn't land on a child,playing and all his fingers are broke,did he anger a forest fairy and she,cursed him and now he has two sets of,legs instead of hands,or is that him waving a huge red flag,not the your husband can either,commit to eating at home with you tell,you well before dinner that he's eating,with his mom or he can make his own,meals,until he starts regularly making a,choice to be home or go with enough time,for you to plan and prep your cooking,cook enough for only you he's on his own,eta i wasn't going to say it because i,feel it's obvious but i can't help,myself this is much larger of an issue,than dinner time,there's a profound lack of respect in,your relationship husband needs to snip,the apron strings at the very least but,really needs to spend some serious time,thinking about what a marriage and,partnership actually means,not the you didn't make him lick,the empty plate did you i say you were,restrained my mill was an award-winning,southern chef my husband is a chef my,son is a chef i cook well but i'm not a,chef not one of them has ever,disrespected my cooking not the ,stop cooking for him not the why,are you married to a mama's boy who is,okay with disrespecting the hard work,you put into your relationship,not the but it seems that you,are the third person in this,relationship,it almost seems like your husband values,his relationship with his mother over,you and she constantly uses food to,reinforce the same why are you in this,marriage still not the sounds,like you might need these subreddits r j,u s t n o m i l,r just no so having a mill that calls at,dinner time trying to entice him over as,a serious overstep and the fact that he,goes and doesn't say honey how about we,go eat over there as absolutely bonkers,unfortunately you are the third wheel in,their relationship nta but why are you,still with someone who you have to,compete with his mother over,am i the for not wanting to pay,for my father's medical bills,my f-29 parents divorced when i was,about 10 years old and i have had no,contact with my father after a year,because he made the choice to prioritize,his new family stepson 33 and eventually,his children with new wife over my,brother and i no visitation after he got,remarried at all,when we called to ask when he was going,to visit us he would just say that he,was busy before the divorce i was,literally daddy's little girl his,beloved golden child no joke i thought,my father was the best and i wanted to,marry a man like him when i grew up,so the fact that he just dropped my,brother and